When there is despair, Hope.
A friend of mine lately has been overrun with confusion—maybe even hate—about a recent problem with a loved one. So disturbed he cannot discern recent tumultuous events that befell his otherwise once serene life. (What an obvious allusion on someone I know).
And being a friend of his, I tried to cheer him up in my own way. Besides, I once had the same predicament in love. I may even say it (mine) was worse. Perhaps love can never really be understood, otherwise what’s in it for us once love clutches you in its bosom?
During those times of infamy (his), consoling for a friend is but normal; I do admit I felt the same once, too. It took long before I got over mine, but even past hurts have to end. And it could end in the most unlikely places, like inside a cab being stuck in traffic during a heavy downpour for more than forty minutes. There is a ray of light, and eventhough that ray of light you saw never reappears or will never be yours, at least it serves as a sign.
The only thing (something) that can cure a heartbreak is a renewed sense of love—a love that makes you feel like, well, this may sound corny but it’s true: someone or something to replace that past that hurled you into a life of utter nonsense.
This I have come to realize, that life DOES go on indeed. And it does find a way, especially when you're down. Pare, there IS hope; It is true. And It Exists. I’m SUre of that.
"The only thing (something) that can cure a heartbreak is a renewed sense of love—a love that makes you feel like, well, this may sound corny but it’s true: someone or something to replace that past that hurled you into a life of utter nonsense."
ReplyDelete-Well, I personally don't think that someone or something can ever cure a state that we have created for ourselves. No one can replace a past love, or a person. If we can't accept the things that happen to us, we can never move on. Fact about loving people is that, there is no assurance of "forever". Or no assurance that there won't be storms that you would have to pass through. Love ain't a rosegarden.
The past is irreplaceable, what has been lost or given away, will never be regained.
I have this thing about breakups...two people fit and create this picture, and when they break, it's like they create pieces of a jigsaw puzzle...no one else will fit perfectly to replace the pieces that have been lost. BUt eventually, you'll grow and morph into a new piece, a whole. When you find someone new, both of you have to make compromises to break yourselves so that you can both join to create a whole. But definitely, finding some new love to replace an old one to move on...well, it is an option, but don't you think its better to love not because you want to be filled? But because you're happy and you want to share that happiness with someone who can laugh with you?
It's alright to cry over someone...if that someone deserves your tears.
I think its better to give your heart time to heal...you've ended a love story, which isn't a good one, but eventually, you'll write a new one. a better one.
This is the best comment I ever had. Though there are some flaws, it's the best. Who could you be, anonymous? But then again, anonymous is anonymous. I'm glad for this comment. It made me think.
ReplyDeleteBut the past can be replaced to give way for the new.
I agree with you anonymous...it shows you how you can recover from the grief and move on to a better and brighter tomorrow, today! You can, in fact, be cured. Breaking up doesn't have to mean the end of the world! Just move on and have fun.
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